Mummy... LET’S TALK DATING AS BLACK MUSLIM WOMEN | Crossover Episode: AITL X OOT | Part 2

PART 2!!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down to finish the conversation from last week on sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. In this part 2, we dive into relationships, dating and so much more.

From our first boyfriends, to halal dating and to arranged marriages? They're unpacking first crushes, living authentically, dating experiences and what it means to truly reclaim your choice as a woman.

This is the finale Part 2 of a two-part series.

00:00 Welcome to the Crossover: Dating as Black Muslim Women

03:40 First Crushes & Early Dating Experiences

09:35 Rejection, Unrequited Love & Learning Patterns

11:47 Dating After Trauma & Reclaiming Choice

15:50 Age Gaps, Coercion & Things That Happened To Us

20:26 Sexual Assault, FGM & The Consequences of Choice Being Taken

23:58 Marital Rape, Blue Balls & The Double Standard

36:00 Religion, Queerness & What the Texts Actually Say

41:57 Sinners Judging Sinners & Living Authentically