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We Weren't Actually Living": Paige Carter on Burnout, the Grey Area, and Becoming a Badass Advocate

We Weren't Actually Living": Paige Carter on Burnout, the Grey Area, and Becoming a Badass Advocate30 jun55 min

<p>πŸŽ™οΈ <strong>Episode Title</strong><br>&quot;We Weren&#39;t Actually Living&quot;: Paige Carter on Burnout, the Grey Area, and Becoming a Badass Advocate</p><p>✨ <strong>In This Episode</strong><br>Hello. This week I&#39;m with Paige Carter β€” the woman who once filled Parliament House with autistic families so their reality landed in front of the decision-makers. We talk about the day her family stopped surviving the pressure cooker, packed life into a caravan, and watched her son come back to himself on the open road. If you&#39;ve ever held it all together and still not actually lived, this one&#39;s for you.</p><p>🧠 <strong>What We Talk About</strong></p><ul><li>Why Paige pulled her family out of &quot;the pressure cooker&quot; and onto the road (approx. 05:00–08:30)</li><li>Her son Oakland regressing in a mainstream school that couldn&#39;t meet him β€” and returning to himself within weeks of leaving (approx. 09:00–13:30)</li><li>The &quot;grey area&quot; in SA education: kids too able for special ed, too unwell for mainstream β€” and the fight she&#39;s taking to the Premier (approx. 22:30–29:30)</li><li>Her late ADHD diagnosis landing as validation, and the both/and of grieving a late recognition (approx. 14:30–20:00)</li><li>Becoming a &quot;badass advocate&quot; without burning down β€” pacing the fight so it survives (approx. 20:00–22:30, 30:00–33:30)</li><li>Connection as what makes the hard shareable, and her new podcast When Life is Lifing (approx. 40:00–56:00)</li></ul><p>πŸ’¬ <strong>Memorable Moments</strong></p><p>&quot;I constantly felt like we were in a pressure cooker, and we weren&#39;t actually living.&quot; β€” Paige<br>&quot;You have to become a badass advocate to get the best for your kids.&quot; β€” Paige<br>&quot;It&#39;s okay to be like, I actually can&#39;t do that today. And it doesn&#39;t mean I fail.&quot; β€” Paige</p><p>πŸ“š <strong>Resources + Mentions</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/inclusiveoak/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Inclusive Oak </a>(formerly Oak for Autism) β€” Paige&#39;s community for neurodivergent families. Follow the page; no membership needed to be welcomed.</li><li><a href="https://inclusiveoak.com.au/a-call-for-change-in-sa-schools" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">SA education advocacy campaign + submission form </a>β€” on Paige&#39;s site. ~10 minutes; every submission is collated as evidence and has gone to the Premier.</li><li>When Life is Lifing β€” <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6anY9JYG2LPbCSVuxapsv1?si=2Xo4uTpUTfSXrGqHWQ9DVQ%0A&utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnDK27yim0sw9W5ZM_vjz6jaSMfgsNh14yFJ1RE4KUp1bw3mbyBeSSxJLcjzQ_aem_LrrcoRdnSwzPn9NJsX2pnw&nd=1&dlsi=f6f7a1d7602646d3" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Paige&#39;s new podcast with Leanne. </a></li><li>Wildly Grounded Co β€”<a href="https://www.wildlygrounded.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"> Leanne&#39;s business. </a></li></ul><p>Paige Carter β€” founder of Inclusive Oak, fierce neurodivergent advocate and mum to a proudly neurodivergent family. Years fighting for autistic kids in SA&#39;s education system, now doing it from the road while travelling Australia for a year. One half of When Life is Lifing.<br>Guest Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/inclusiveoak/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.instagram.com/inclusiveoak/</a><br>Guest Website: <a href="https://inclusiveoak.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">inclusiveoak.com.au</a></p><p>🎧 <strong>Listen + Subscribe</strong><br>Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-being-me/id1516970986" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-being-me/id1516970986</a><br>Spotify: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/4RLYE5TA3ZsCtuAF8otRQ0" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://open.spotify.com