Broken for Better

← Broken for Better26 feb · 23 min

Less Chaos, More Peace: 3 Rhythms That Change the Temperature of Your Home

Less Chaos, More Peace: 3 Rhythms That Change the Temperature of Your Home26 feb23 min

<p>Does your home feel too loud emotionally, mentally, or relationally? In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette Schaer talk about the hidden “crazy cycle” many couples live in: two ships passing in the night, running a household but not building a marriage… and calling it “just a season.”</p><p>You’ll learn how to stop the slow erosion that drains intimacy over time and replace reactive rhythms with intentional rhythms that bring peace back into your marriage.</p><p>In this episode, we cover:</p><p>✅ How to know when you’re mentally/emotionally exhausted (not just “vacation tired”)</p><p>✅ The crazy cycle and why chaos becomes “normal”</p><p>✅ The question that changes everything: Is life dictating the pace of your marriage… or is your marriage dictating the pace of life?</p><p>✅ The difference between reacting and responding (and how to choose calm</p><p>✅ 3 practical rhythms that restore connection:</p><p>Daily bookend conversations (morning or night check-ins)</p><p>Asking better questions to access your spouse’s heart</p><p>Sabbath/rest together (and how to rest when you’re wired differently)</p><p><br></p><p>Big takeaway: Peace isn’t the absence of problems. It’s the presence of intentional rhythms to navigate them.</p><p>Drop a comment: What’s one rhythm you’ve created that brought more peace to your home?</p><p>💛 Want more information about personal marriage coaching? Connect with Kurt and Denette at: https://www.brokenforbetter.com/coaching</p><p>📍All the links - stay in touch:https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo</p>