
← Confidence30 aug · 1 u 06 min
Not Chosen
<p>When someone doesn't choose you, is it really about you? Let me tell you why it's not personal. Before I get into that, I pour my little heart out about feeling a little run down. I'll reflect on how tough it is to say no in the moment and how your exhaustion is a signal to recalibrate. Then I answer a question about handling the silent treatment without letting it wreck your confidence, saying a final goodbye, and being so far away from self-trust. </p><p><br></p><p>Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: <a href="https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application</a></p><p><br></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>0:00 Checking In: I'm Run Down</p><p>14:14 Life Is Inherently Purposeless</p><p>27:19 What If You Didn't Need to Matter?</p><p>35:46 Situation: The Silent Treatment</p><p>49:39 Value Mindset vs. Alignment Mindset</p><p>55:07 Situation: One Last Goodbye</p><p>59:20 Situation: I Don't Trust Myself</p>