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The Messy Middle Nobody Talks About
Have you ever felt like you're no longer who you used to be, but you're not yet the person you're trying to become?
Welcome to the messy middle.
In this episode, Taniel explores the uncomfortable in-between space that often comes with personal growth, healing, career changes, motherhood, and life transitions.
She unpacks why curve balls at work and at home can derail even our best intentions, why recovery often takes longer than expected, and how self-criticism keeps us stuck far longer than the original problem ever does.
If you've been feeling exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated with yourself lately, this episode is a reminder that you're not failing - you might simply be in the middle of becoming.
In This Episode We Discuss:
What the "messy middle" actually is
Why growth rarely feels as good as it looks online
How workplace stress and family challenges can derail us
The hidden reason recovery takes so long
Why self-compassion is more practical than self-criticism
Simple ways to regulate your nervous system when life throws a curve ball