Nothing at Stake

<p>This week we are getting into the contrast between anxious and avoidant patterns. I wrote something down that I feel describes the dynamic perfectly. I will discuss my own challenges with avoidance and how I am working towards healing it. I also recap a situation from last week&#39;s episode where a listener quickly backed off a relationship. I discuss how to lead with more curiosity and less defensiveness. This is not just about being the bigger person, but becoming so much more.</p><p><br></p><p>Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: <a href="https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application</a></p><p><br></p><p>Chapters: </p><p>00:00 Curiosity vs. Assumption</p><p>20:08 High Standards or Just Avoidant</p><p>30:27 Avoidant vs Anxious Patterns</p><p>53:56 &quot;You&#39;re Not Anxious, You&#39;re Just Dating a Loser&quot;</p>