I Hate Dating Apps

← I Hate Dating Apps21 May 2025 · 26 min

FBI, CIA, DEA and the ABCs of Spotting Scammers

FBI, CIA, DEA and the ABCs of Spotting Scammers21 May 202526 min

Falling for a scammer posing as a romantic interest? It happens more often than you'd think—and not just to the naïve. Even the most seasoned dating app users can get caught in a web of sweet talk and stolen valor.

In this episode, we chat with private investigator Shelley Cain, whose job is all about catching cheaters and unmasking frauds. She shares how scammers often hide behind fake badges, ranks, and uniforms —and how to spot the red flags before your heart (and bank account) takes a hit. Plus, a real-life cautionary tale of a lonely heart.