EP70: Why Do We Fall In Love? The Psychology No One Talks About

We're told it's about chemistry.

About connection.

About finding the right person.

But that's only part of the story.

In this solo episode of Loving Everything, I break down what's actually happening when we fall in love— from attachment and neuroscience to the deeper psychological truth most people don't talk about:

You're not just falling in love with someone else. You're falling in love with who you become in their presence.

This episode explores the difference between falling in love and staying in love, why intensity can be mistaken for intimacy, and how early attachment patterns shape who we're drawn to, and why.

We also look at heartbreak differently.

Not as a failure. But as information.

Because the way a relationship ends often reveals more than how it begins.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why we are biologically wired to fall in love