She Counts

← She Counts17 Jun · 58 min

Presence, Not Performance: The Confidence Others Feel Around You

Presence, Not Performance: The Confidence Others Feel Around You17 Jun58 min

The need for “executive presence” is the vague phrase that shows up in performance reviews as the reason women don't get the promotion – even though almost no one can define it. Lindsay Patterson, co-founder and CEO of CPA QualityPro, joins Nancy and Questian to strip it down to something simpler and more meaningful: instilling confidence in others that you're the right person for the job. They dig into the double-standard that turns an assertive woman into "aggressive"; what to do when office culture rewards the loudest jerk in the room; and why walking away from a toxic culture is never failure.

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(00:00) - Welcome to She Counts

(01:14) - Meet Lindsay Patterson

(04:14) - First-Day Reporter Shock

(07:07) - Lessons on Respect and Power

(08:18) - Defining Executive Presence

(11:45) - Double Standards and Toxic Cultures

(17:13) - Presence Without Assimilation