
← Subjective9 May 2025 · 37 min
The 6 Besties Theory: Why One Bestie Will Never Be Enough
<p>We all have best friends—but have you ever thought about the specific roles they play in your life? According to the 6 Besties Theory, no single person can be <em>everything</em> to you, and honestly? That’s a <em>good</em> thing.</p><p>In this episode, we’re breaking down why we all need different kinds of best friends; the OG, the Work Bestie, the North Star, the Good Time Bestie, the Dead Body Bestie, and the Seasonal Bestie. You’ll probably start thinking about which category your closest friends fall into.</p><p>We also talk about: </p><p>✔️ The bestie roles we’re missing in our own lives. </p><p>✔️ Can one person be <em>all</em> the besties at once? </p><p>✔️ The <strong>“Friendship Audit”</strong>—who’s really in your circle?</p><p>By the end, you’ll know exactly <em>who’s who</em> in your friendship roster—and why having a <strong>diverse bestie lineup</strong> might just be the key to better relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>→ <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP86APDmx/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Hayes</a>, the original creator of the Besties Theory: </p><p>—</p><p><strong>🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY </strong></p><p>🎧 Listen & <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@theSubjectivepodcast " target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">subscribe</a> </p><p>📬 <a href=" https://thesubjectivepod.substack.com/ " target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Newsletter</a></p><p>📲 IG / TikTok: @TheSubjectivePod</p><p>📸IG @_DonyelleMurray </p><p>📥 Business: subjective@donyellemurray.com</p><p>📚📰 <a href="https://beacons.ai/thesubjectivepod/receiptsresources" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Receipts & Resources</a></p><p>—</p><p>Have a burning question? Need advice? Or want to share your wildest, craziest story? Submit your question, request advice, or share an experience you want to know how I’d handle in the '<a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSenzj_gF0WEw46jA1lilqutqO3XxuiMiCVGpP7Gy2OeWA7sNg/viewform" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">What Would Donyelle Do</a>?' segment on Subjective.</p><p><br></p><p>🎧 Listen to more <a href="https://beacons.ai/subjectivepod" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">episodes</a> of Subjective on all podcast platforms.</p><p><br></p><p>✨ Reviews help us grow and reach more listeners—thank you for your support!</p><p><br></p><p>📅<strong> Upload Schedule: </strong>Episodes are available every other Friday on your favorite podcast platforms and on YouTube. Make sure to subscribe so you never miss a new upload!</p>