The "chill girl" is a lie

<p>Today I’m giving you my full dissertation on the chill girl because I have THOUGHTS. She’s low-maintenance, easygoing, never needy, never difficult. But how much of being “chill” is actually confidence, and how much is abandoning your own needs before someone else gets the chance to reject them?</p><p>Let’s get into where the chill girl came from, why women are so afraid of being “difficult,” and what it actually looks like to retire her for good.</p><p><br></p><p>Articles: </p><p><a href="https://www.kellogg.northwestern.edu/faculty/uzzi/ftp/teaching%20materials/recent%20articles/rewards/Nice%20Girls%20Don%27t%20Ask.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Nice girls don&#39;t ask </a></p><p><a href="https://gap.hks.harvard.edu/social-incentives-gender-differences-propensity-initiate-negotiations-sometimes-it-does-hurt-ask" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Sometimes it does hurt to ask</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow the pod on <a href="https://instagram.com/totallyunbothered">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@unbotheredclub">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p>Follow Chloe on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chloemadison/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@chloemadison">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> ⁠</p>