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Ep. 166 Are you the partner you want to date?

Ep. 166 Are you the partner you want to date?17 aug16 min

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We spend so much time talking about what we want in a partner that we rarely stop to ask ourselves if we're showing up the same way. In this episode, I'm challenging you to hold up the mirror and take an honest look at the qualities, habits, and standards you're bringing into your relationships. We'll talk about the difference between having high standards and having double standards, uncover some common relationship blind spots, and explore what it really means to show up for someone you love. This isn't about settling or lowering your expectations—it's about pairing those expectations with self-accountability.

Key Takeaways:

Identify what qualities you want in your relationshipWhy high standards should always be paired with high self-accountabilityHow presence is one of the most underrated ways to strengthen a relationshipHow to see your blindspots, when they are blind to youHow to become accountable to the things you say you want in someone else

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