The Moment That Stuck | Jackie Glaser: When Turning to G-d Becomes a Way to Hide From Yourself

<p>Human &amp; Holy is on a season break for the rest of the summer! During this time, we&#39;re airing your favorite moments from the past few seasons.</p><p><br></p><p>In today&#39;s excerpt with Jackie Glaser, we cover spiritual bypassing, noticing the patterns that keep showing up in our lives, cultivating self-worth and self-trust, navigating rejection, our flaws as filters while dating, recognizing that matchmakers do not have control over people&#39;s future when navigating the shidduch system, and strengthening our trust in God. </p><p><br></p><p>To watch the full episode this excerpt is from, click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=243HxQfOx9E</p><p>To contact Jackie or learn more about her courses, you can find her at jackieglaser.com or find Jackie on Instagram: datingbyjackieg </p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>* * * * * * *</p><p>To inquire about sponsorship &amp; advertising opportunities, please email us at info@humanandholy.com</p><p>To support our work, visit humanandholy.com/sponsor.</p><p>Find us on Instagram @humanandholy &amp; subscribe to our channel to stay up to date on all our upcoming conversations ✨</p><p>Human &amp; Holy podcast is available on all podcast streaming platforms. New episodes every Sunday &amp; Wednesday on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Google Podcasts.</p><p><br></p><p>* * * * * * *</p><p><br></p><p>TIMESTAMPS:</p><p>0:00 Spiritual bypassing</p><p>2:04 How our patterns are signposts from Hashem, not punishments</p><p>3:07 Why we avoid taking responsibility, and turn anxiety into blaming Hashem instead</p><p>5:27 Going inward with compassionate curiosity instead of judgment</p><p>7:11 Turning to G-d as an escape hatch</p><p>7:21 Normalizing the pattern before moving forward</p><p>9:08 Self-trust as the real foundation behind who you marry</p><p>9:17 The somatic work begins: tuning into the body as a source of real data</p><p>12:45 Surrendering </p><p>14:23 Clearing subconscious blockage to make more room for closeness with Hashem</p><p>16:13 How our internal beliefs get projected onto strangers </p><p>17:35 Why healing the felt state dissolves the belief system underneath it</p><p>18:58 How the fear of rejection actually dissolves with this work</p><p>20:42 &quot;I reject myself&quot; — the most important relationship you&#39;ll ever build is with you</p><p>22:23 Disability or flaws as a filter in dating, not a disqualifier</p><p>24:05 Boundaries with matchmakers</p><p>25:44 When parents choose to &quot;play the game&quot; with a difficult shadchan for their child&#39;s sake</p><p>26:27 Hashem was never limited to a shadchan <br></p>