Why Do We Wait for 'Someday' That Might Not Come?

In this episode of I Got Kuestions, Kadie opens up about the passing of Dolly Parton — someone she’d been waiting to see perform in Vegas — and uses it as the jumping-off point for a bigger question: why do we treat ”someday” like it’s guaranteed to come?

Kadie shares the real story behind her answer — a vow she made years ago after Whitney Houston died, promising herself she’d stop waiting for the ”right time” to see the people she loves perform live. She walks through everything she’s actually done since making that promise: baseball games, basketball games, soccer, the NFL, Celine Dion, BLACKPINK, BTS, and an upcoming Ed Sheeran show. It’s proof that living this out is possible — not just a nice idea.

From there, Kadie digs into the quiet lie behind ”someday”: the assumption that we’ll always be healthy enough, rich enough, or ready enough to do the thing later. There’s no guarantee of that, and life doesn’t pause to let us catch up. But rather than landing on something heavy, Kadie flips it into a genuinely hopeful message — go see the people, say the thing, book the trip, while you can.

The episode closes out with this week’s No Stupid Kuestions and the Kuestion of the Week: ”What’s something you’ve been saving for ’someday’ – and what’s actually stopping you from doing it now?”