EP72: Why Men Shut Down - Attachment, Burnout, and the Cost of Holding It Together

Why do some men go quiet when life gets hard?

Not because they do not care.

And not always because they are unwilling.

Sometimes, emotional shutdown is survival.

In this episode of Loving Everything, I sit down with therapist and men's mental health specialist Dr. Miles Salisbury for a powerful conversation about attachment, burnout, masculinity, emotional shutdown, and the hidden cost of always holding it together.

For many men, competence becomes identity. Strength becomes performance. Silence becomes protection.

But what happens when the strategy that once helped you survive starts costing you intimacy, connection, and emotional truth?

Together we explore:

• emotional shutdown and overwhelm as adaptive responses

• attachment, masculinity, and early relational conditioning

• burnout, irritability, numbness, and emotional withdrawal

• performance, responsibility, and the pressure men quietly carry