Tom - Monogamous, Open, or Something Else?

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they unpack loneliness, emotional safety, and the tension between freedom and connection, while diving into monogamy in the gay community — where it often feels split between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Rather than prescribing a “right” way, they explore how the real work is about self...