Ep. 56: You’re Not Responsible for Their Healing

After betrayal, a lot of men fall into a pattern they don’t even realize they’re in. You start paying attention to how they’re doing, whether they’re changing, whether they finally understand the impact of what happened. You adjust yourself, your reactions, even your communication, hoping it will help things settle. And without realizing it, your focus shifts away from your own healing and onto theirs. “Your partner is responsible for their choices and their healing. You are responsible for y...