The Biggest Marriage Mistakes Newlyweds Make (And How to Avoid Them) with Mike Novotny

What makes the first years of marriage so challenging—and how can couples build a strong foundation that lasts?

In this episode of inContext, Michael Easley sits down with pastor and author Mike Novotny to discuss his book Newlywed. Together, they unpack the biggest challenges young couples face, from unmet expectations and communication breakdowns to intimacy, finances, in-laws, and the influence of social media. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and personal experience, they offer practical, biblical wisdom for building a Christ-centered marriage.

Whether you're engaged, newly married, celebrating decades together, or mentoring younger couples, this conversation will encourage you to pursue humility, honest communication, and a deeper dependence on God in your marriage.

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction and why newlyweds need biblical guidance

02:20 – The biggest mistakes couples make in year one

04:00 – Unspoken expectations and why they create conflict

08:30 – Home life, chores, and different family backgrounds

09:30 – Healthy conversations about intimacy and expectations

15:20 – Communication that strengthens marriage

18:45 – The Ten Commandments of Communication

20:45 – Listening instead of trying to fix every problem