The Status Game: How Presentation Shapes Who Gets Ahead with Alison Fragale

<p>Five years ago I made a few TikToks where I leaned hard into self-deprecating humor — playing into every stereotype I thought my audience already had about me. Vain. Superficial. Not that smart. They went viral. Millions of views. </p><p>So I did it again. And again. For four years. It worked. I built a large audience on it. And I was exhausted from shrinking myself into a box that had almost nothing to do with who I actually am. </p><p>This week on Mirror Mirror, I sit down with Alison Fragale — organizational psychologist, professor, and author of Likable Badass — to unpack what's actually happening when women make themselves smaller to be liked, and what it costs them. </p><p>This is the follow-up to my conversation with Vivian Tu about the "pretty premium" — the research showing attractive people earn 10 to 15% more over their careers. But looking the part only gets you in the room. What Alison studies is what happens next: how you're perceived, how much people respect you, and why two women with identical qualifications can walk into the same room and get completely different outcomes. </p><p>We also get into the three verbal habits Alison says are quietly eroding women's credibility every day — and I admit to doing all three.</p><p><br /></p><p>→ Have a beauty question you want me to tackle on the next Inbox? DM @mirrormirrorwithamy on Instagram→ Subscribe so you don't miss next week's full Mirror Mirror episode.ABOUT MIRROR MIRRORMirror Mirror is a podcast that cuts through the noise and uncovers the science shaping beauty and the psychology driving our desire for it. Hosted by Amy Chang — LA Times contributing writer, Marie Claire 2024 Power Player, and a trusted authority in beauty, with over 2.4 million followers who turn to her for insights on cutting-edge treatments and science-backed skincare.Expect unfiltered conversations, expert insight, and the freedom to love your lipstick — while still questioning what perfection means.LISTEN ANYWHEREApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/bh/podcast/mirror-mirror-with-amy-chang/id1876357199Instagram: @mirrormirrorwithamy#beautymyths #skincare #aesthetics</p>