
← Queers with Accents13 jul · 32 min
[018] The Art of Forgetting: Driver’s Licenses, Official Letters, and USJ Souvenirs
<p>Episode Summary</p><p>In this episode, Masaki catches Kinoko off guard right as the camera turns on, leading into a highly relatable chat about memory lapses and chaotic schedules. Masaki is in a rush to catch a train for a mandatory restaurant sanitary management lecture, which sparks a debate on the difference between a "license" and a "qualification."</p><p>From there, the hosts exchange stories about their most forgetful moments. Kinoko reveals how she accidentally let her driver’s license expire for over five months after moving from Fukuoka, while Masaki shares his own anxiety-inducing tale of driving on an expired official car insurance policy. They also dive into the nuances of vocabulary for being scatterbrained, the tedious etiquette of Japanese official mail, and whether forgetfulness is an inherent family trait, a cultural difference, or simply a generational reality.</p><p><strong>License vs. Qualification:</strong> Masaki breaks down the legal vocabulary. A license (like a driver's license) must be renewed periodically, whereas a national qualification (like a food hygiene manager) is typically held forever, even if local governments occasionally require refresher lectures.</p><p><strong>The Five-Month Window:</strong> Kinoko recounts her close call in Fukuoka, where she realized her driver's license had expired five and a half months prior—dangerously close to Japan's strict six-month limit that requires retaking the entire examination process.</p><p><strong>It Runs in the Family:</strong> After Masaki admits he accidentally drove with expired mandatory government car insurance until a mechanic friend spotted it, the hosts look at the idiom "runs in the family" to describe shared genetic tendencies.</p><p><strong>The Bureaucracy of Japanese Mail:</strong> Masaki vents about a bank document envelope sitting on his desk since January. He explains the confusing process of crossing out the polite suffix <em>ike</em> (往/行) to change it to <em>on</em> (御中) on return envelopes, only to realize the prepaid postage window had expired in April.</p><p><strong>The Forgotten USJ Souvenirs:</strong> Masaki shares a comedy of errors involving Universal Studios Japan souvenirs that sat by his entrance for a month, were almost melted by the summer heat, and were subsequently forgotten in the back of his mother's car.</p><p><strong>English Word Corner - Slip My Mind vs. Forgetful:</strong> A breakdown of how to express memory slips. The hosts compare describing a person as "forgetful" versus using situational idioms like "it slipped my mind" or analyzing the passive phrase "easy to forget."</p><p><strong>Tokyo Sharehouse Opening!</strong> If you or someone you know is looking for an affordable, flexible, short-term housing option in Tokyo without the massive hotel bills or strict apartment lease rules, check out Kinoko's sharehouse!</p><p>Kinoko-san’s X: <a href="https://x.com/kinoko1027" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://x.com/kinoko1027</a></p><p>Kinoko-san’s blog: <a href="https://ameblo.jp/kinoko1027ameba/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://ameblo.jp/kinoko1027ameba/</a></p><p>Her book: <a href="https://amzn.asia/d/0gusbsvA" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://amzn.asia/d/0gusbsvA</a></p><p>Her interview: <a href="https://news.yahoo.co.jp/articles/ad17531bef6f9307a429f45f450a9fb2817f8196" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://news.yahoo.co.jp/articles/ad17531bef6f9307a429f45f450a9fb2817f8196</a></p>