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You Have More Free Will Than You Think: Here’s How to Use It

You Have More Free Will Than You Think: Here’s How to Use It29 jul29 min

<p>Today’s episode is a reminder  that you are the main character of your own life.</p><p>In this episode of Reclaiming Bossy, I’m breaking down how to “free will max”: building the money, time, boundaries, self-trust, community and energy that give you more freedom to design a life you love,</p><p>We get into identifying your core values and your “why”, defining success on your own terms, setting boundaries around what you will and won’t tolerate, building financial literacy, thinking differently about your 168 hours each week, delegating, protecting yourself from burnout and breaking the cycle of constantly looking to other people for validation.</p><p>If you’re feeling stuck, burnt out, directionless and want to design a more happy life, this episode is for you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>TIMESTAMPS</strong></p><p>00:00 Intro: How to maximise your free will and personal agency</p><p>00:50 The funding gap and the reality of being the first in your lineage</p><p>03:28 Step 1: Identifying your core values and finding your “why”</p><p>06:07 Step 2: Setting boundaries and deciding what you won’t tolerate</p><p>08:33 Step 3: Designing your own version of success</p><p>11:07 Money is a tool: Building financial agency and financial literacy</p><p>13:52 You have 168 hours: How to spend your time and pay yourself first</p><p>18:00 Delegating tasks and understanding what your time is worth</p><p>19:30 The energy audit: Protecting your energy and preventing burnout</p><p>22:04 Stop waiting for permission: Breaking the validation loop</p><p>24:40 Why you need a community of builders around you</p><p>26:17 Reclaiming “Bossy” and launching Bossy and Brown magazine</p><p><br></p><p>What’s one way you’re maximising your free will right now? Comment below, I want to hear yours. Please also send this episode to someone you want to free will max with.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>THINGS MENTIONED</strong>The Bossy and Brown Magazine (info/pre-order): https://www.bossyandbrown.com</p><p>168 hours book: https://lauravanderkam.com/books/168-hours/</p><p>The Finance Season: https://youtu.be/u583FCbmLEY?si=dnDNySkTZxkbx0_I<br></p><p><strong>BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREER</strong></p><p>Bossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.</p><p><a href="https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenes">https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenes</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>WORK WITH ME</strong></p><p>Creator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.</p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1">https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1</a></p><p><br></p><p>Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.</p><p>Book a Strategy Session : <a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07">https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&amp;month=2026-07</a></p><p>Book a discovery call : <a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1">https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1</a></p><p>Join the next personal branding sprint : <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=header">https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=header</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Follow The Podcast/ Connect With Me</strong></p><p>Podcast Instagram: @reclaimingbossy</p><p>Podcast TikTok: @reclaimingbossy</p><p>My Instagram: @maahika.s</p><p>My TikTok: @maahika.s</p><p><br></p><p>Collaborations + enquiries: team@empowersoundsmedia.com</p>