S5E22 - Why practitioners struggle to trust themselves (and self doubt keeps winning)

<p>What if the reason you struggle to trust yourself as a practitioner has nothing to do with how intuitive you are - and everything to do with where you&#39;ve been taught to look for answers? Jayne unpacks the three core reasons practitioners get stuck in the permission-seeking loop: outsourcing to the wrong sources (lineages, teachers, external systems), buying into the myth that more healing work = more self-trust, and learning in the wrong path to develop self-trust entirely. She reveals the Sacred Triangle - the relationship between theory, intuition, and spiritual wisdom that no single teacher can replicate for you - and shares the counterintuitive model that actually builds genuine practitioner authority: action first, self-trust fosters, understanding follows.</p><p><strong>BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE, YOUWILL DISCOVER:</strong></p><p>● The Sacred Triangle (theory, intuition, and spiritual wisdom in right relationship) is the missing piece that keeps practitioners stuck in cycles of asking external sources for answers. When all three points are in balance, you stop outsourcing your medicine to teachers and lineages - you unearth your own authentic way of working because you have direct access to all three sources of knowing simultaneously.</p><p>● More healing work won&#39;t solve the self-doubt problem - and this is the controversial truth the spiritual industry doesn&#39;t often name. Self-doubt is part of being human and shows up for everyone (even the most experienced practitioners); what matters is stopping the belief that every moment of doubt means you&#39;re broken and need fixing.</p><p>● Spirit-led work requires the reverse of conventional learning: action first, self-trust fosters, understanding follows. When you take action from within sacred space - grounded in the hollow bone state, in direct relationship with your guides and the energy itself - you experience directly that it works. Repeated lived experience builds genuine self-trust in a way no external teacher can manufacture.</p><p>● No mentor can teach you beyond their own ceiling of self-trust and direct spiritual relationship. If they&#39;ve been trained to rely on technique, that&#39;s what they&#39;ll teach; if they haven&#39;t built unmediated connection to spiritual wisdom, they can&#39;t show you how to build yours - which is why looking outside yourself for the answers perpetuates the cycle.</p><p><strong>And while you&#39;re here, I&#39;d love to connect on Tiktok &amp; Instagram @reikiredefined.</strong></p><p><strong>Also, make sure to tag me in your stories @reikiredefined.</strong></p><p><strong>Live lead &amp; serve from the power of your own truth - Spirit-led Reiki Pathway: </strong><a href="https://www.reikiredefined.com/spirit-led-reiki-pathway/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠<strong>https://www.reikiredefined.com/spirit-led-reiki-pathway/</strong>⁠</a></p><p><strong>Stop absorbing your clients&#39; energy: </strong><a href="https://reikiredefined.com/stop-absorbing-your-clients-energy/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠<strong>https://www.reikiredefined.com/stop-absorbing-your-clients-energy/</strong>⁠</a></p><p><strong>No cost non guru community with no hierarchy or all knowing behaviour: </strong><a href="https://www.reikiredefined.com/free-community/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠<strong>https://www.reikiredefined.com/free-community/</strong>⁠</a></p><p><strong>Essays on power, ethics &amp; authority: </strong><a href="https://jaynegoodsir.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠<strong>https://jaynegoodsir.substack.com/</strong>⁠</a></p><p><strong>UNDILUTED (a weekly round up that encourages us to question what we&#39;ve inherited, trust our direct experience, and remain curious about what we know to be true): </strong><a href="https://reiki-redefined.kit.com/6629991732" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠<strong>https://rei