Episode 91 What You’re Really After (And How to Create It Yourself)

What If It’s Not the Thing… But the Feeling You’re After?

✨ Episode Summary

In this episode, I take you back to a very specific moment in my childhood—when I was convinced that a pair of clogs, long hair, and painted nails would finally make me feel special.

At the time, it felt so real. So true.

But what I didn’t understand then—and what many of us still don’t fully see now—is this:

We don’t actually want the things we’re chasing.

We want how we think those things will make us feel.

And when we unknowingly assign our feelings to something outside of us…

we end up waiting.

Waiting for the weight loss.

Waiting for the relationship to change.

Waiting for the circumstances to line up.