A Simple Parenting Tool To Reframe “Difficult” Behavior

The fastest way to change a child’s behavior might be changing the story we tell ourselves about who they are. When we’re deep into summer routines and siblings are together all day, it’s easy to slip into labels like “messy,” “bossy,” “lazy,” “shy,” or “difficult” even if we never say the words out loud. Those labels don’t just describe our kids; they shape how we talk to them, how patient we feel, and what we expect to happen before anything even happens. We’re also entering the Nine Days,...