
← The Black Sheep Perspective15 jul · 1 u 35 min
A Mom Turned Therapist's Truth About Addiction & Family
What if your love for an addict is actually making things worse — and you don't even know it?
Miss V is a licensed marriage and family therapist, family recovery specialist, and mother who lived through her own son's addiction. She turned that pain into purpose — and now she's sharing everything families get wrong about supporting a loved one in recovery.
In this raw, unscripted conversation, she challenges the myths of tough love and rock bottom, reframes what healthy boundaries actually look like, and introduces a powerful new mindset: stop trying to love them to death — and start loving them to life.
We cover:
• Why tough love doesn't work — and what actually does
• The hidden roles families unconsciously play (hero, scapegoat, lost child)
• How to set boundaries that protect YOU, not punish them
• The difference between a relapse and a slip
• Why shame never leads to lasting addiction recovery
• How social media is driving youth addiction to dangerous new levels
• What treatment centers aren't telling families — and why that gap is dangerous
• How to rebuild trust without walking on eggshellsThis isn't your typical polished podcast. No script, no fake energy — just an honest conversation about what families actually need to hear.