Comfortability Kills

In the most recent edition of Send Me, the F3 Knoxville newsletter, I shared some thoughts around this idea that comfortability is a silent killer - over time it lulls you to sleep physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Plugging this into one of my new favorite tools - NotebookLM by Google - an AI conversation called a Deep Dive was created and it was pretty legit. Think smarter, not harder with NotebookLM: the ultimate tool for understanding the information that matters the most to you, built with Gemini 2.0.

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Men of F3 Knoxville! It’s a great week to have a great week.

Let’s talk comfortability for a second. My wife and I recently started watching season three of the Apple TV show Ted Lasso and if you know anything about this show you know Ted is this super-energetic and optimistic guy. He deals with his own demons and anxiety for certain, but he is an eternal optimist - always choosing to see the best in others, in situations, and in life. He has a great quote on taking on challenges and how it relates to being comfortable, and before diving into that I wanted to share what this word actually means.

According to Wikipedia (so you know you can trust this), comfortability is “a sense of physical or psychological ease, often characterized as a lack of hardship.” Michael Easter talks a lot about this idea in his book “The Comfort Crisis.” If you haven’t read it - I would 10/10 recommend it. It’s pretty amazing the lengths (some obvious and some not so obvious) we go to as human beings to make ourselves comfortable. Comfortability is the silent killer - the one that is always there, even if you don’t realize it. When I have shown up to F3 over the past 8-9 years, it has rarely been comfortable. I mean, c’mon now - burpees in freezing weather, carrying heavy rucks and sandbags up/down hills, 50 SQUAT JUMPS?! Not a fan of squat jumps. BUT it has been good. Better than good, actually. It’s been exactly what I needed: to reject my comfort zone and accept the fact that I can do hard things even in an uncomfortable state. You can too.

Here’s the Ted Lasso quote.

Taking on a challenge is a lot like riding a horse. If you’re comfortable while you’re doing it, you’re probably doing it wrong.

-Ted Lasso

So this week, here’s the challenge: take on a challenge that might be uncomfortable. Taking this a step further: what would taking on a challenge that might be uncomfortable look like in your Fitness? Your Fellowship with others? Your Faith? Some examples that popped into my head:

* Signing up to Q / lead an F3 workout

* Saying the hard thing / exercising candor

* Holding someone you care about accountable