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163. Women Don't Want Less Sex… They Want MORE
<p>Most people think women want less sex than men.</p><p><a href="https://courtneyfaelong.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Courtney Fae Long</a> says that's not the problem.</p><p>Many women don't have low libido—they feel unseen, undesired, and emotionally disconnected in their relationships. It's a concept she calls<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@courtneyfaelong" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"> <strong>Erotic Abandonment</strong></a>, and it's affecting more couples than anyone wants to admit.</p><p>In this episode, we unpack why highly sexual women are often labeled "too much," the hidden cost of unmet desire, and how loving relationships can still leave someone feeling sexually alone. We also dive into sexual compatibility, why some women experience a surge in desire during perimenopause, and what it actually means to feel wanted by your partner.</p><p>If you've ever wondered whether the issue is low libido—or something deeper—this conversation might change the way you think about intimacy forever.</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thenotsobadpod" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Josh</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TheNotSoBadpod" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">YouTube</a> <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thenotsobad" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">TikTok</a></p>