The Woman You're Trying to Become Is Keeping You Stuck

You might be trying to become a woman who isn't actually you.

Not because wanting to grow, change, or become a new version of yourself is wrong.

But somewhere along the way, "becoming her" can turn into chasing a fantasy woman who never gets overwhelmed, never loses momentum, always follows through, has the perfect routine, and apparently has no inconvenient emotions or actual life.

And every time real-life you doesn't behave like fantasy-you would, it feels like evidence that you're failing.

In this episode, Allie breaks down the difference between chasing an idealized version of yourself and actually discovering and becoming the woman you're here to be.

You'll hear:

•How your future self can quietly become another impossible standard

• The difference between your fantasy self, your current self, and your true self

How to tell the difference between something you genuinely desire and something you think you "should" want

Why you might be trying to rewire yourself into a life that isn't actually aligned with you

What happens when you separate who you are from what you accomplish, produce, and do for other people

Why becoming her was never supposed to mean becoming perfect