S1E90: A non-profit chief on why caregivers refuse the rest they need and end up hitting a wall

As Singapore ages, the number of family caregivers is rising, making caregiver respite a key focus.

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The rising number of dementia patients is just the tip of the iceberg. An ageing population, chronic illnesses that leave loved ones bedridden, and more awareness of mental health conditions have cast a spotlight on the importance of caregiver respite.

On this episode of In Your Opinion, we look at the mental health struggles faced by caregivers who sacrifice much of themselves in caring for loved ones.

Joining assistant podcast editor Lynda Hong is Tim Oei, CEO of Mindfull Community. Drawing on decades of leadership at major social service agencies like AWWA and the National Kidney Foundation, he talks about caring for the carers, and why some see going to work as a form of respite.

Oei touches on systemic gaps that could disadvantage asset-rich, cash-poor caregivers, and why quitting your job to be a full-time carer can very quickly lead to burnout.

They also explore the marathon that is caregiving, and how friends, colleagues and neighbours can take small steps to help.

Highlights (click/tap above):

3:23 When burnt-out caregivers face health issues

5:34 Caregivers only seek help when crisis hits

9:22 Why having a job can backfire when applying for grants

11:40 ‘Work is respite’: How some carers see their jobs