
← Two Plus Two: The Swinger Podcast for Couples22 apr · 57 min
Ep 67: New vs. Repeat Partners: Novelty or Proven Chemistry
<p>Zack and Josie are back with Drew and Suzie—and this time, the conversation dives into the dynamics of <em>new vs. repeat play</em>.</p><p>They kick things off with a bold question: <em>what’s the perfect size?</em> Josie and Suzie quickly find themselves in agreement—and their reasoning sets the tone for a fun, unfiltered conversation.</p><p>From there, the conversation turns to what really drives desire. Zack says all he needs is mutual attraction, but Josie pushes back, arguing that context, energy, and connection play a much bigger role. While Zack and Josie admit they’re often open to new, in-the-moment opportunities, Drew and Suzie lean toward repeat experiences—where trust, comfort, and deeper exploration can take things further.</p><p>That leads to a conversation about the “script.” Zack jokes that most couples stick to a familiar playbook, while Drew and Suzie are working with a much more expansive “menu.” They share how curiosity, communication, and a willingness to explore have shaped their experiences—and how they even help others expand theirs.</p><p>And in the end, Zack shares the mindset shift that’s helped him enjoy it all more: letting go of expectations and simply being present for whatever unfolds.</p><p>So… is it better to chase something new, or deepen something familiar?</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Support our podcast </strong>by booking your<a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/#travel" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> travel</a> or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit<a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/</a></p><p><br></p><p>(00:00:00) AWG: The perfect penis</p><p>(00:04:01) It there’s mutual attraction, I’m good to play</p><p>(00:06:49) Context and novelty vs familiarity</p><p>(00:10:54) Exchange of energy plays a big role in interest</p><p>(00:12:02) Familiarity is more important than novelty</p><p>(00:16:30) Voyeurism, compersion and Easy Bake Ovens</p><p>(00:19:10) Going ‘off script’ and keeping things spicy</p><p>(00:24:04) It’s exciting to help other people explore their sexuality</p><p>(00:25:54) I don’t know what I don’t know</p><p>(00:27:42) Vulnerability creates opportunities for new experiences</p><p>(00:28:58) Sounding…are you into it?</p><p>(00:32:05) How do you broaden your sex menu</p><p>(00:35:29) Regretting the things you did do vs the things you didn’t do</p><p>(00:36:29) Expanding our sex menu</p><p>(00:39:53) Prescheduled weekend dynamics</p><p>(00:42:53) Making the best of every situation</p><p>(00:45:18) Letting go of anticipation to enjoy the moment you’re in</p><p>(00:47:32) Expanding your sex menu</p><p>(00:49:56) Finding other couples with extensive sex menus</p><p>(00:53:10) We’ve had some amazing play experiences</p><p><br></p><p><strong>We'd love to connect with you!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!</strong></p><p><a href="https://peachesncream.app/"><strong>https://web.peachesncream.app/</strong></a><a href="https://peachesncream.app/"></a></p><p><strong>INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2</strong></p><p><a href="https://peachesncream.app/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"></a></p><p>Join the<strong> Two Plus Two Podcast Group</strong> on <strong>Peaches'nCream</strong> to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie.</p><p><br></p><p>Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:</p><p><a href="mailto:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">hello@twoplustwopodcast.com</a></p><p></p><p>Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves!</p><p><a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://twoplustwop