
← Two Plus Two: The Swinger Podcast for Couples29 jul · 1 u 06 min
Ep 74: A Unicorn Finds Her Match: Community, Chemistry & Commitment
<p>Zack and Josie welcome new guests Rick and Gwen for a conversation about their unique journey navigating the lifestyle together. After meeting a little over a year ago, the two began building their connection while exploring how the lifestyle would fit into their relationship.</p><p>When they met, Gwen was already a unicorn in the lifestyle, while Rick brought extensive experience as a pleasure Dom. Together, they have had to navigate the changes that came with shifting from individual experiences to exploring as a couple. They share the growing pains, lessons learned, and how they continue to support each other’s interests and desires.</p><p>Gwen talks about how she discovered the lifestyle and what keeps her drawn to it, while Rick shares his journey of finding a place for his BDSM interests with partners who genuinely enjoy those dynamics.</p><p>The conversation also dives into the challenges singles often face in the lifestyle, including feelings of loneliness and navigating connections without the built-in support of a partner. Rick and Gwen discuss the differences between solo experiences and couple experiences, including the unique bond couples can build when they reconnect and share their adventures together.</p><p>This episode explores connection, communication, evolving roles, and the ways relationships can grow when partners embrace each other’s authentic selves.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Support our podcast </strong>by booking your<a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/#travel" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> travel</a> or purchasing your lifestyle products using our affiliate links. Visit<a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/</a></p><p><br></p><p>(00:00:00) Gwen’s journey into the lifestyle as a unicorn</p><p>(00:05:52) Rick’s BDSM journey</p><p>(00:09:55) BDSM doesn’t interest Gwen, but she respects his desire for it</p><p>(00:12:11) The pleasure Dom</p><p>(00:18:00) Rick and Gwen met on Feeld</p><p>(00:22:42) Building a relationship while navigating the lifestyle together</p><p>(00:26:57) Perceptions and expectations </p><p>(00:32:25) Prejudice, judgment and communication</p><p>(00:37:24) Adventure, community and connection</p><p>(00:40:59) The octopus</p><p>(00:46:50) Parallel play, play dynamics</p><p>(00:50:42) Navigating feelings and connections</p><p>(00:55:48) Chemistry, emotional connection and meaningful love</p><p>(01:00:31) Attraction and communicating interest</p><p><br></p><p><strong>We'd love to connect with you!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>INVITE CODE: 2PLUS2</strong></p><p><a href="https://peachesncream.app/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>https://web.peachesncream.app/</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Join the<strong> Two Plus Two Podcast Group</strong> on <strong>Peaches'nCream</strong> to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask questions and connect with Zack and Josie.</p><p><br></p><p>Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:</p><p><a href="mailto:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">hello@twoplustwopodcast.com</a></p><p></p><p>Want to be a guest? Start with our guest application and tell us all about yourselves!</p><p><a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://twoplustwopodcast.com/guest/</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources</strong></p><p>Book Your Trip to Temptation or Desire</p><p><a href="https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://twoplustwopodcast.com/resources/</a></p><p>Rick’s Photography Business</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/polymathphoto" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer