EP 224: Mike's Story

This episode of Unashamed Unafraid introduces guests Mike (“Sacramento Mike”) and his son Weston, with Mike visiting Utah from Hawaii for his daughter’s wedding. Mike describes growing up in an LDS family near Sacramento, first encountering pornography at 11, becoming compulsively drawn to it, and being forcibly sexually assaulted by older boys around age 13–14, which deepened his shame and porn use; he later learned those boys were arrested for raping family members. At 18, after drug use, he prayed on a beach, quit drugs, served a mission in Ecuador, married, and raised a family while hiding a long-term pornography problem that escalated alongside law-enforcement work in Oakland and PTSD. After multiple deaths in his care and suicidal crises, he sought help, was retired from duty, and recounts a 2018 moment when his wife, prompted by God, prevented a planned suicide, helping him recognize God’s love. Mike has now been sober from pornography and sexual acting out for 8 years.

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01:28 Wedding Weekend Banter

03:02 First Exposure To Porn

05:25 Sexual Assault And Confusion

07:14 Shame And Silence

08:43 Beach Prayer Wake Up

11:32 Mission And Marriage

13:51 Law Enforcement And Trauma

15:22 Confessing and Hiding Secrets

16:30 PTSD and Relapse Cycle

18:14 Family Distance and Regrets