Dating in the Wild with Tori Swanson

<p>Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why inconsistency is the number one relationship killer, and why dating yourself might be your best move yet. Plus, compliments, eye contact, and why your gym is the dating app you&#39;re not using.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>✨ Special Offers: ✨</strong></p><p><a href="https://splashblanket.us/discount/JORDAN15" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>Splash Blanket!</strong></a><strong> </strong>| Use code <strong>Jordan15</strong></p><p><a href="https://prodxhealth.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>ProDx Health</strong></a><strong> | </strong>Use <strong>JordanDnelle</strong> to save 25%</p><p><strong>Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Jump to the Good Stuff:</strong></p><p>05:23 – Meet Tori, sexologist, sex therapist, &amp; former exotic dancer</p><p>06:17 – What even IS modern dating? The dopamine swipe trap explained</p><p>07:32 – Why women are swearing off men</p><p>08:59 – The best places to meet people IRL; apps aren&#39;t it</p><p>17:27 – How to date yourself &amp; be available while doing it</p><p>19:59 – The ChatGPT dating problem</p><p>24:04 – Red flags: what&#39;s real vs. what&#39;s noise</p><p>24:57 – Inconsistency as the #1 relationship dealbreaker</p><p>27:22 – Calling someone out without blowing it up</p><p>34:05 – How Tori defines pleasure</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Pleasure Highlights:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Swipe culture kills depth, be intentional</p></li><li><p>IRL presence beats any dating app</p></li><li><p>ChatGPT can&#39;t fake real vulnerability</p></li><li><p>Inconsistency is the #1 red flag</p></li><li><p>Pleasure isn&#39;t always sexual, reclaim it</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Tori:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/torithecoach/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @torirthesexcoach</p></li><li><p><a href="https://torithesexcoach.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Website: Tori the Sex Coach</a></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the <em>Unleashing My Power: A Women&#39;s Empowerment and Gratitude Journal</em> to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXNHPGXN?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_9F8J1SQDBE0ENN5WTES4" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>HERE</strong></a>. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/Js.squared" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Facebook</a> @‌jordandnelle </p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @‌jordandnelle </p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @‌TheVVVPodcast</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jordandnelle" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">TikTok</a> @‌jordandnelle</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@jordandnelle" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Youtube</a> @jordandnelle</p></li><li><p>Website: <a href="http://jordandnelle.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">jordandnelle.com</a></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Email</strong>: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Love this Episode?</strong></p><ul><li><p>Join Patreon for bonus content:<a href="http://patreon.jo