Pleasure, Power, No Rules with Papiii Chulaaa

<p><strong>Pleasure, power, and dating without apology.</strong></p><p>In this episode, Corithina (Papiiii Chulaaa), sex educator, youth empowerment leader, and self-proclaimed career dom, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore holistic sex education, pleasure-centered learning, and radical self-ownership.</p><p>They dive into dating dynamics, communication, kink, and why pleasure, not just prevention, belongs in sex education. Corinthia shares her journey through intentional “messy” dating, redefining relationships, and embracing autonomy in love and desire. You’ll also hear powerful insights on emotional availability, cultural narratives around relationships, and how to create connections that actually align with your values.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Jump to the Good Stuff:</strong></p><p>02:24 – Origin story + sex ed activism</p><p>06:20 – Why pleasure belongs in sex education</p><p>07:37 – Confidence &amp; communication through sex ed</p><p>08:00 – Teaching men + menstrual cycle awareness</p><p>10:06 – Menopause, generational gaps, and lifelong sex education</p><p>13:51 – Dating sabbatical: lovers vs relationships</p><p>16:45 – Communication styles in modern dating: voice notes over texting</p><p>19:50 – Monogamy myths + cultural conditioning</p><p>28:26 – Friendship as a core relationship model</p><p>29:15 – Choosing partners who align with your work + identity</p><p>31:27 – Kink, BDSM, and finding compatible partners</p><p>39.17 – Dating culture, apps, and why men aren’t showing up</p><p>45:20 – The “male loneliness epidemic” + relationship skill gaps</p><p>46:41 – Pleasure, dominance, and evolving sexual exploration</p><p>48:00 – Defining pleasure + where to find Papiii Chulaaa</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Pleasure Highlights:</strong></p><ul><li>Pleasure belongs in sex education</li><li>Communication &gt; dating games</li><li>Monogamy isn’t the only model</li><li>Friendship as core relationship</li><li>Emotional availability gap</li><li>Pleasure = self-ownership</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Papiii Chulaaa:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/papiiichulaaa/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @papiiichulaaa</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/corysmileyface/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @corysmileyface</li><li><a href="https://substack.com/@corysmileyface" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Substack</a>  @corysmileyface</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women&#39;s Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your personal power through the practice of daily gratitude and reflection. Learn more <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXNHPGXN?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_9F8J1SQDBE0ENN5WTES4" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"><strong>HERE</strong></a>. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/Js.squared" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Facebook</a> @‌jordandnelle </li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @‌jordandnelle </li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> @‌TheVVVPodcast</li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jordandnelle" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">TikTok</a> @‌jordandnelle</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@jordandnelle" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Youtube</a> @jordandnelle</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Email</strong>: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com</p><p><br></p><p><strong>If you loved this Episode, please support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast!</strong></p><ul><li>Join the Patreon community:<a href="http://patreon.jordandnelle.com/" target="_blank" rel="