Reviving the Handie with Ashley Manta

<p>Handjobs get a bad rap, but today we&#39;re bringing them back! In this episode, certified sexologist Ashley Manta joins us to explore why hand jobs deserve more respect. We break down her go-to techniques: the Pepper Grinder, the Bottle Rocket, why a baby bottle warmer might be the most underrated tool in your nightstand, and how foreskin changes the game. We also get into what to do when your partner goes soft, why mindset matters, as well as cannabis and sex and what it&#39;s like inside Desire Cruises and Hedonism. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>✨ Special Offers: ✨</strong></p><p><a href="https://splashblanket.us/discount/JORDAN15"><strong>Splash Blanket!</strong></a><strong> </strong>| Use code <strong>Jordan15</strong></p><p><a href="https://prodxhealth.com/"><strong>ProDx Health</strong></a><strong> | </strong>Use <strong>JordanDnelle</strong> to save 25%</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, Phexx</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Jump to the Good Stuff:</strong></p><p>05:35 – Ashley — sexologist, author, Betty Dodson mentee</p><p>07:02 – Why hand jobs get such bad PR</p><p>09:00 – The 3 non-negotiables: two hands, lube, time</p><p>10:35 – Setting the scene - the &quot;giver&#39;s mindset&quot;</p><p>12:20 – Best positions</p><p>18:45 – The baby bottle warmer lube hack</p><p>22:23 – Signature moves: the Pepper Grinder &amp; Bottle Rocket</p><p>27:06 – Foreskin 101</p><p>30:55 – Inside Desire Cruises &amp; Hedonism</p><p>49:31 – Cannabis, CBD myths, and the indica/sativa debate</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Pleasure Highlights:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Two hands, lube, and time are the foundation.</p></li><li><p>Confidence matters more than technique.</p></li><li><p>Soft doesn&#39;t mean over.</p></li><li><p>Most CBD-only products are underdosed marketing.</p></li><li><p>Consent and intentionality around substances are non-negotiable.</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Ashley Manta:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/cannasexual/"><u>Instagram</u></a> @cannasexual</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.ashleymanta.com/"><u>Website</u></a>: ashleymanta.com</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/"><u>Courses</u></a>: elevatedintimacy.com</p></li><li><p>Book:  <em>Merry Jane&#39;s The CBD Solution: Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life</em></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the <em>Unleashing My Power: A Women&#39;s Empowerment and Gratitude Journal</em> to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXNHPGXN?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_9F8J1SQDBE0ENN5WTES4"><strong>HERE</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Jordan D’Nelle:</strong></p><ul><li><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/Js.squared"><u>Facebook</u></a> @‌jordandnelle</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jordandnelle/"><u>Instagram</u></a> @‌jordandnelle</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thevvvpodcast/"><u>Instagram</u></a> @‌TheVVVPodcast</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jordandnelle"><u>TikTok</u></a> @‌jordandnelle</p></li><li><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@jordandnelle"><u>Youtube</u></a> @jordandnelle</p></li><li><p>Website: <a href="https://jordandnelle.com/"><u>Jordan D’Nelle⁠⁠</u></a></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Email</strong>: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Love this Episode? </strong></p><ul><li><p>Join the Patreon:<a href="http://patreon.jordandnelle.com/"> <u>patreon.JordanDnelle.com</u></a></p></li><li><p>Leave a review on iTunes.</p></li><li><p>Subscribe &amp; Follow on socials!</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:</strong></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaginas-vulvas-and-vibrators/id1516181113">