5:1 | The Yes That Finally Did It | Why Neurodivergent Adults Struggle With No

<p>People-pleasing is not a personality flaw. It is a survival response, and for a lot of neurodivergent adults it is the one nobody taught us to put down.This episode kicks off a brand new month on fawning and boundaries. I tell the story of Dani, a composite client whose smallest yes finally broke her, and walk through how she learned to set boundaries with her mom, her partner, and eventually a new boss without a single apology. Plus the only two things we actually use to measure progress, and why the other person&#39;s reaction is never one of them.| Want to start this course at its origin? <a href="https://youtu.be/hFz0gdpdA9A" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://youtu.be/hFz0gdpdA9A</a> || Chapters |0:00 The yes that broke the camel&#39;s back0:44 New phase, new direction1:25 Fawning is survival, not a flaw2:10 Meet Dani4:16 Quick pause: the free quiz4:55 A boundary starts with a noticing6:15 The dinner phone call, and the real scoreboard7:54 The 11pm no, and 100 boring reps9:13 The interview a year later11:23 The quiz, and ciao for now| Shownotes |• xxx___________________________📌 Late diagnosed? Take the quiz to see what’s possible: <a href="https://www.victoriouscoach.com/awadhdquiz" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://www.victoriouscoach.com/awadhdquiz</a> 📌 Local to Denver? Check out an event: <a href="https://victoriouscoach.eventbrite.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://victoriouscoach.eventbrite.com</a>  📌  Liked the content? Consider keeping the lights on &amp; buy me a coffee! <a href="https://coff.ee/cumberbatcg" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://coff.ee/cumberbatcg</a> 💫 The BEST all around business platform for entrepreneurs, periodt! Unltd. email, CRM, sales pages, funnels, course creation, communities [and so much more, it&#39;s actually wild]: <a href="https://openinapp.link/sio" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://openinapp.link/sio</a>___________________________Hey, I’m Viki! TLDR I’m a resilience coach empowering the neurodiverse from living in states of TENSION to living in a state of INTENTION. As a trauma sensitive practitioner, I support people through coaching, somatics and events. Sometimes, I post about empowerment through health, wellness and natural living. Find more: <a href="https://www.victoriouscoach.com/linkz" rel="noopener noreferrer">victoriouscoach.com/linkz </a></p>