#83 Capacity Discrepancy: When "I Would" Becomes "You Should"

Have you ever looked at your partner and thought, "But I would never handle it that way"? I would have remembered. I would have asked for help. I would have taken care of it. If I can do it, why can't they? It's an incredibly easy leap to make. What would be available to us becomes what we believe should be available to the person we love. And before we know it, a difference between two people can become a judgment about responsibility, effort, caring, or even character. In this deeply ...