Our Pronouns are Love / Lies / Lesbians with Julie Birke

<p>This week, we&#39;re joined by comedian and internet icon Julie Birke, creator of the viral TikTok series <em>Love, Lies &amp; Lesbians</em>. In true Yenta! form, we spend the first half of the episode obsessing over Raye&#39;s Batman Begins, the greatest lesbian cinematic universe ever posted online: toxic exes, secret relationships, car &quot;incidents,&quot; and the impossible task of making sense of sapphic chaos.</p><p>Then we get into the real gossip. Julie tells us what it&#39;s actually like to date your neighbor, why lesbians absolutely can be trash, how a healthy relationship after heartbreak changed everything, and what happened when strangers started recognizing her from TikTok. We also discuss Catholic guilt, queer sex parties, ghost theories, the surprising number of lesbian rabbis in the world, and the roommate who successfully hid an entire closet for three years.</p><p>If you&#39;ve ever wondered whether the lesbian dating pool is just one giant group chat… this one&#39;s for you.</p><p><br></p><p>SUBSCRIBE to and RATE Yenta! on: </p><ul><li>Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU2pwVmZuR3VUcS13d2V5QzRFdWJqX3xBR3JiS2FuX2t1WlFGOEk2dkJSZFNONDVDXzkwZWRTZnc5ZHg2bk1wTWxJVkVNdEtUWnhjNFgwXy1VTlRGX0lhM0J1SmN3YUdaRlRkNW9OV2p5R0RucWF4eS1tQnFXSnNJbjUx&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpodcasts.apple.com%2Fus%2Fpodcast..&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast..⁠</a>.</li><li>Spotify: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU3pHVUhmdzdpdTNmMV9ya2dTd2RYWXxBR3JiS2FtcVczZ21pcG51MlhsNEVZOWdXQjM1NlgyYXlnYlpBVmZZYi1vWExBY29lUzl3X0VQLVQ4UUVZek9XQzZFSHVrTXJ2VjlTYUxpMFo5bUMtODdnRWs5Z2liclI5ZU41&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F2vmZrDz..&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/2vmZrDz..⁠</a>.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>JOIN the Patreon support the show, unlock exclusive content, and apply for the Yenta! matchmaking service : <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rU3M5U0tlaUYyUDR1T2VCUlFQYXJ1NXxBR3JiS2FrU29RXzdCNElGdVdwNGp3bzV0VktzTk92ZF95TG8zTGJRTndMWXp1N3kxWmJwbTltWXo2SGl6T09ic3VKUFR4S25vbnBqVk1ZQnZYb0RqSXhmZ1A3UFRTWmJ6S2dn&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.patreon.com%2Fcw%2Fyenta&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠  / yenta  ⁠</a></p><p>FOLLOW Raye on:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUWtLOW5Za0FKZXVBT3Iwel9nSXJ1S3xBR3JiS2FualRKQ2R1b2V3UF9tYWhfSnI5eFZ1d09DeFlvdkFWSWZBblY5QUNOclpWSV9FYncwbU02Y1lvRGNvek9KWFFibzg3NEljM3RISmpTdUxmRjRJdnFwaV9YYmZLRnFC&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Frayeschiller%2F&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠  / rayeschiller ⁠</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUWtLOW5Za0FKZXVBT3Iwel9nSXJ1S3xBR3JiS2FualRKQ2R1b2V3UF9tYWhfSnI5eFZ1d09DeFlvdkFWSWZBblY5QUNOclpWSV9FYncwbU02Y1lvRGNvek9KWFFibzg3NEljM3RISmpTdUxmRjRJdnFwaV9YYmZLRnFC&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Frayeschiller%2F&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠ ⁠</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rUk9jZDQtcjFsZmJiMnJkQXVzWVRrRnxBR3JiS2FuWFplVEw3YXhOb3Y0cnJfZnZma0xiUklUY01CS2VjbGotOVhCRnFxQThiWWlKNVh6cVJSaGVVbG1xUXZ5Rl85Y3ZhaUdLR3Q0ODZBdC1sc1g2VGo1clVTeDFjZG8t&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40rayeschiller&v=_wD_PvdJt8U" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">⁠  / rayeschiller  ⁠</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p>FOLLOW Antonia on:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUM4Zm9rVFl1Vko4WDhwR1hDXzlZOWRiQ0tzVnxBR3JiS2FsT2Z3UUR4MXVXTFUyRk11eXJYMEU5XzNwSG52emhnUEtTQXltUDlxU1BxTGNfN1h6WXo1SWxWTlRPODlPYk40RlFzNXNpQ0Y5dVhvT25tdXdYdllsOFd5T3ZYczR1&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fanton