Episode 21: Relationships, Money, & Mental Health

In this episode of A Way Forward, host Jessica Samuels is joined by CMHA Kelowna CEO Mike Gawliuk and Katie Bransfield, Director of Consumer Banking at Beem Credit Union, for a candid and practical conversation about how relationships, finances, and mental health intersect.

Money is one of the leading stressors for individuals and couples across Canada — yet it remains one of the hardest things to talk about. Together, the panel explores how to bring openness, safety, and teamwork into conversations about money, and why doing so can strengthen both your relationship and your mental well-being.

What We Cover in This Episode:

What is financial compatibility?

Katie explains why compatibility isn’t about equal income — it’s about aligned values, spending habits, expectations, and long-term goals. Understanding each other’s “money mindset” helps reduce conflict and build trust.

Why money conversations feel so hard?

Shame, past experiences, family teachings, and even unspoken expectations all shape how we interact with finances. Creating a safe, judgment-free space is essential.

How to talk about money with your partner

Practical guidance from Katie on:

Choosing the right moment

Starting with curiosity

Being transparent about income and debt