The Communication Mistake Most Couples Don't Realize They're Making with Jason Van Ruler Ep. 745

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your spouse thinking, "That's not what I meant at all"? Or wondered why you keep having the same argument over and over again?

The truth is, most couples aren't struggling because they don't love each other, they're struggling because they communicate differently.

In this episode, Dr. Kim is joined by licensed therapist and author Jason Van Ruler to unpack the five communication types and why understanding your spouse's communication style can completely change the way you approach conflict. They talk about why we so often take our differences personally, how stress affects the way we communicate, and why learning to truly listen may be the most powerful thing you can do for your marriage.

If you've ever felt misunderstood or wished your spouse "just got you," this conversation will help you replace frustration with understanding and give you practical tools to communicate in a way that brings you closer instead of pushing you apart.

Episode Highlights:

Why communication breaks down—and why it's probably not for the reason you think.

Discover your communication type and learn how it shapes every conversation with your spouse.

Simple shifts that will help you feel more seen, heard, and understood in your marriage.

Stop taking communication differences personally and start using them to grow closer.

Quotes from This Episode:

Jason VanRuler "We aren't very well versed in communicating for connection."

"The more we feel we can't communicate, the more we believe the lie that our spouse must like it that way."