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Shayna: Former Modern Orthodox

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Shayna Sragovicz grew up in a family that became Orthodox when they were seven, moving from a largely secular Jewish childhood into Chabad schooling and eventually Modern Orthodoxy. In this episode, Shayna traces the contradictions they began noticing in seminary and college, how COVID disrupted the religious structures that had sustained their life, and how small acts of questioning eventually became a much broader process of deconstruction.That process expanded beyond religion into gender, sexuality, career, family, spirituality, and community. Now a life coach working with people rebuilding their lives after religion, Shayna discusses self-trust, the difference between deconstruction and reconstruction, therapy versus coaching, and the challenge of figuring out what you actually want once the old rules are gone. ResourcesShayna's coaching website: https://kacoachingmethod.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shayna.kacoaching/Email: shayna@kacoachingmethod.com Books:Childfree by Choice - Dr. Amy BlackstoneThe Origins of You - Vienna Pharaon, LMFTThe Power of Ritual - Casper ter Kuile Timestamps00:00 — Growing up as the child of baalei teshuva 05:40 — Entering public school and experiencing life outside the Orthodox bubble 11:18 — Why Shayna calls “Modern Orthodoxy” an oxymoron 16:01 — Seminary, women learning Gemara, and the beginnings of doubt 21:48 — COVID breaks apart the structures sustaining religious life 30:13 — Why leaving religion requires self-forgiveness and patience 32:37 — Queerness, gender, and deconstructing expectations beyond religion 45:03 — Rethinking career, children, and the life Shayna was “supposed” to build 48:56 — Becoming a coach: inner critics, intuition, therapy, and reconstruction 1:00:23 — Absolute truths, spirituality, community, belonging, and what comes next