Slow Processors and Fast Processors: Sometimes You Have to Stand Up for Yourself

⚠️ Note: This episode contains some swearing — intentionally and with purpose. If you have little ones around, save this one for later.

Hello, beautiful souls! Welcome back to the Angels & Awakening Podcast. I'm your host and author, Julie Jancius. Friends, this one came through in meditation and spirit would not let it go until I said it out loud.

Do not do this at work! I'm talking about our closer relationships — and how we need to protect ourselves more. Maybe we need to listen to ourselves more and stand up for ourselves more.

This is a mini episode with a big message. 🤍

In This Episode

[00:00] Julie's services — sessions, Angel Reiki School and the Wednesday night membership community[02:11] Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy — and why spirit keeps asking Julie to just share one message at a time[02:59] The toxic divorce, the 14-year-old girl who made herself invisible, and the English teacher who changed everything[05:46] Energy clearing through words — and why sometimes saying something out loud shifts the energy completely[06:16] The turtle shell — turning the other cheek, making yourself smaller, and what it costs you over time[08:04] The Costco neighbor and the message that has been replaying in Julie's mind for years[14:38] Fast processors vs. slow processors — which one are you and why it changes everything about how you handle conflict[16:30] Why slow processors learned to make their own feelings less important — and where that started[17:19] The slow processor pattern — boundaries crossed five, ten, fifteen times before you even notice your own anger[20:27] What happens when a fast processor comes into a conversation with an agenda — and why slow processors feel railroaded[21:46] The closing message — you deserve to be seen and heard in your relationships[22:10] The one caveat — and why this does NOT apply at work

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