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Wider Lens: Redefining Success with Tom Pfeifer Part 3 Ep. 746
What does success really look like—and who gets to define it?
In the final episode of this three-part conversation, Dr. Kim sits down with Tom Pfeiffer to talk about the subtle ways we drift from our priorities without even realizing it. Together they unpack why saying "yes" to every good opportunity can cost us what matters most, how small daily habits shape the life we're building, and why true success isn't measured by titles or achievements but by living a life that's aligned with your values.
Whether you're feeling stuck, stretched too thin, or simply wondering if you're chasing the right things, this conversation will challenge you to slow down, evaluate what's most important, and take one intentional step toward the life God is calling you to live.
Episode Highlights: Learn how "priority drift" quietly pulls you away from what matters most—and how to stop it.
Why chasing alignment instead of success leads to greater freedom, purpose, and peace.
Simple daily habits that create lasting change, both personally and professionally.
Practical encouragement to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start taking the next right step.
Quotes from This Episode: Tom Pfeifer:
"Priority drift doesn't happen all at once. It's one extra meeting, one extra commitment, one extra 'yes.'"
"Every time you say yes to something, you're saying no to something else."
"Success is what other people can see. Alignment is when the life you're living matches the values you say you have."
"The best decision I ever made was to stop chasing success and start chasing alignment."