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Open Relationship: Why It Destroys Trust [Ep 147]
<p><b>Open Relationship: Why It Destroys Trust</b></p><br /><p>Open relationship advice usually skips the part where jealousy, insecurity, and broken trust start eating the relationship alive. John and Echo get real about why bringing other people into your marriage or committed relationship rarely solves the problem you think it will.</p><br />In This Episode<ul><li>Opening a relationship often breaks trust before anything even happens</li><li>“Just sex” usually isn’t as simple as people want to believe</li><li>Jealousy and insecurity are natural consequences of non-monogamy</li><li>Deep intimacy requires time, exclusivity, and emotional safety</li><li>Wanting to open a marriage may point to deeper personal issues</li><li>Porn and sexual overstimulation can create unrealistic desires</li><li>Kids and families can be affected even when adults think it’s hidden</li><li>If you want out, honesty is better than dragging someone through chaos</li></ul><br />Timestamps<p>0:00 — Opening Relationships As A Relationship Killer<br />3:11 — Why Deep Intimacy Requires Exclusivity<br />6:45 — Why It Is Never Just Sex<br />10:32 — Saying You’re Not Enough By Asking To See Others<br />14:45 — Choosing Your Partner’s Best Interest Over Desire<br />18:30 — Putting Your Partner Above Yourself In Practice<br />22:21 — When Authority And Marriage Agreements Break Down<br />25:08 — The Deeper Issues Behind Wanting More Partners<br />29:29 — The Hidden Family Fallout For Kids<br />33:52 — Porn, Desensitization, And Escalating Desires<br />42:00 — Sexual Dissatisfaction And The Need For Discipline<br />48:22 — Final Advice: Decorn Before You Decide</p><br />Connect<p>🎙 <a href="https://betterthanperfectpod.com" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Full show notes & resources</a><br />📺 <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@BetterThanPerfectPodcast" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">YouTube</a><br />📷 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram: @betterthanperfectpodcast</a><br />🎁 <a href="https://betterthanperfectpod.com/verdict/get/is-it-cheating?src=spotify">Free guide: Is It Cheating?</a><br />📧 Subscribe for weekly relationship advice</p><br />About the Show<p>Better Than Perfect is a relationship podcast that helps you navigate modern dating, marriage, and everything in between — with real talk and practical advice that actually works. New episodes every Friday.</p>