
← Find Love With Emily19. Sept. · 16 Min.
You Don't Have To Be Happy Being Single
<p>If you’re single and desperately want a relationship, being told to “just be happy being single” can feel pretty freaking annoying.</p><p><br></p><p>Because you might already have an incredible life...</p><p>Amazing friends and family, a career you love, a cozy home, plenty of things you genuinely enjoy doing.</p><p><br></p><p>And yet underneath all of that, there’s still this relationship-sized hole in your life with a whole lotta sadness attached. </p><p><br></p><p>You still want your person. </p><p>You still want someone to come home to, someone beside you for all the ordinary moments, someone to build a life with.</p><p><br></p><p>And no amount of taking yourself on dates, finding another hobby or making your single life even more amazing is going to replace that.</p><p><br></p><p>So what the hell are you supposed to do with that relationship-sized hole while you’re still waiting to find love?</p><p><br></p><p>Because there IS something you can do with it that's very different from trying to convince yourself you should be perfectly happy without the relationship you really want.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In this episode, you’ll discover:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why “just be happy being single and love will happen” gets it so wrong</li><li>Why it’s completely okay to admit that something IS missing from your life when you want a relationship</li><li>What’s really sitting inside that relationship-sized hole after years of dating and disappointment</li><li>Why filling your life with friends, hobbies and fun experiences doesn’t actually change how you feel about finding love</li><li>How years of difficult dating experiences can change what you associate love, men and relationships with</li><li>Why finding love can start to feel heavy, hopeless and near impossible even when it didn’t always feel that way</li><li>What needs to change so you can feel genuinely good about love again</li><li>A simple practice you can start using now to change how you feel about the relationship you want</li><li>What to pay attention to when doubts, fear or hopelessness come up</li><li>Why this isn’t about being happy being single, it’s about being really gosh dang happy about love!</li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you’re a successful single woman in your 30s or 40s who has been dating for years, wants a loving committed relationship and is tired of being told to just enjoy being single, this episode of Find Love With Emily is for you.</p><p></p><p>👩❤️👨<strong> Get the si