I Want A Partner, Not A Project

Your marriage can survive a lot, but betrayal has a unique way of turning love into labor. When infidelity hits, trust is not the only thing that breaks. Safety breaks. Reality breaks. And for many betrayed spouses, the relationship quietly becomes a full-time project: checking phones, tracking moods, chasing transparency, and doing the emotional work of recovery for two people. Kim and John get painfully honest about the difference between a partner and a project. We talk through why “fixin...