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Tacos, Trends & Trust w/ Dalila Ramos

Tacos, Trends & Trust w/ Dalila Ramos9. Sept.49 Min.

<p>Fobby and Justin kick off the second half of Season 7 after a six-week break, joined by returning guest Delilah Ramos — a self-employed mortgage industry connector, brand builder, and (as the guys tease her) &quot;brand queen&quot; — who just hired her first employee. The trio dig into the week&#39;s biggest mortgage headline, then get personal with Delilah about the philosophy behind how she builds and prunes her business relationships.</p><p><strong>Topics covered:</strong></p><ul><li>[00:01] Season 7 returns — the guys catch up after the break</li><li>[04:20] Industry news: Nexa Mortgage&#39;s acquisition of U Mortgage, and what it means for the &quot;brokers are better&quot; narrative vs. non-delegated lending</li><li>[08:44] Inflation data in the news</li><li>[08:44] Delilah addresses the M&amp;A rumor mill — no, she&#39;s not sitting on a secret list</li><li>[16:19] Getting to know Delilah: her teenage plan was the military, then law enforcement — working up to detective or FBI (fueled by a steady diet of 90s cop shows: New York Undercover, Beretta, CHiPs, Kojak)</li><li>[26:35] Hot-seat question: what&#39;s harder — walking away from a bad-fit relationship early, or realizing mid-process that it&#39;s not a fit after all?</li><li>[35:00] Delilah&#39;s &quot;bless and release&quot; philosophy — why actions, not words, decide who stays in her circle</li><li>[39:23] How business relationships blur into real friendship — clients who become family</li><li>[41:23] On trust, giving first, and playing the long game with relationships</li><li>[44:00–48:00] Wrap-up: stepping back from the NBA conference speaking circuit after a standout talk in Atlanta this July, and her advice to her 25-years-ago self</li></ul><p></p>