Sex clubs, swinging, consent & your questions | Live stream replay

I went live on Facebook for the first time, admitted I’m still figuring out the dashboard, and shared how wild it’s been to suddenly get major traction after posting since 2022—my page doubled, I hit 2.1 million views in a month, and monetization has me spending lots of time replying to comments because engagement matters (and yes, it pays). I introduced myself and my swinger/sex-club journey starting in April 2019 as a nervous 34-year-old single “unicorn,” talked about how I grew more comfortable at Oasis Aqualounge, and emphasized autonomy, consent, and body positivity while noting clubs don’t check STI status and you must manage your own risk. I highlighted my friends’ stories, my Sex and Swinging podcast/interviews, my fan page, Zoom coaching, and my course for single men, then answered live questions about single men’s nights, boundaries, travel, and closing time.

00:00 First Facebook Live

00:42 Facebook Growth Story

01:34 Why Comments Matter

03:25 My Lifestyle Origin

04:20 Friends And Fantasies

05:51 New Followers Intro

08:29 Podcast And Interviews

10:02 Coaching And Fan Page

12:46 YouTube Loss And Journey

15:43 Oasis Tour And Consent

19:02 Single Men At Clubs