
← Reclaiming Bossy8. Juli · 46 Min.
London Supper Club Chef Reveals The Most Underrated Cuisine You Need To Try
<p>What does it mean to reclaim your culture through food?</p><p><br></p><p>Sohini Banerjee is a chef, food writer, and the founder of Smoke and Lime, a Bengali supper club bringing London's Desi community together one dinner at a time. This episode is part of our South Asian Heritage Month season and it is one of my favourites we have made.</p><p><br></p><p>We talk about Bengali culture, the gentrification of South Asian food, the assimilation struggle of growing up British South Asian, and how Sohini built a freelance food business from scratch by simply refusing to shrink herself or her cooking.</p><p><br></p><p>If you have ever been told your food smells, your culture is too much, or that STEM is the only acceptable path, this one is for you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Timestamps</strong></p><p>00:00 Intro: Welcome to Reclaiming Bossy</p><p>01:04 Meet Sohini: Chef and Smoke & Lime founder</p><p>02:01 Exploring the Bengali community and its nuances</p><p>04:18 Unique aspects of Bengali culture and arts</p><p>05:21 The story behind Smoke & Lime Supper Clubs</p><p>07:03 The gentrification of South Asian food and zero waste</p><p>10:38 Misconceptions and the Matcha vs. Chai debate</p><p>11:56 Overcoming the assimilation struggle</p><p>14:06 Growing up British South Asian</p><p>18:10 Rediscovering Desi identity away from home</p><p>20:07 Reclaiming brown womanhood through food</p><p>23:31 How to get started hosting supper clubs</p><p>25:44 Navigating privacy when hosting strangers at home</p><p>29:44 How to price your supper club and know your worth</p><p>32:24 The brown female tax and defending your rates</p><p>35:06 Content creation advice: don't take it too seriously</p><p>36:56 Letting go of opinions and being authentic</p><p>38:54 Rapid fire: Bengali artists you need to know</p><p>40:05 Why Desi cooking is all about the vibes</p><p>41:22 Stop villainizing carbs</p><p>42:17 Advice to my younger self: ditching STEM stereotypes</p><p>42:46 What it means to reclaim being "bossy"</p><p>43:50 Where to find Shohini and her supper clubs</p><p>45:27 Final thoughts and outro</p><p><br></p><p>Guest Links</p><p>Sohini's Website: https://sohinibanerjee.com/ </p><p>Smoke and Lime Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smokeandlime/ </p><p>Sohini's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sohini-banerjee-smoke-and-lime-0b5a2215a Sohini's About Page: https://sohinibanerjee.com/about/ </p><p>Sohini's Substack: https://sohinibanerjee.substack.com/</p><p><br></p><p>If you enjoyed this episode and learning about Bengali culture, send it to someone who you think would love it. And if you ever get the chance to eat Sohini's food, do not think twice.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>BUILD YOUR BOLDEST + BOSSIEST LIFE/ CAREER</strong></p><p>Bossy Behind the Scenes: Essays, reflections, resources and all the behind-the-scenes of building a bold, bossy life.</p><p><a href="https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenes">https://substack.com/@bossybehindthescenes</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>WORK WITH ME</strong></p><p>Creator/Founder Office Hours: Bring me your ideas, questions or whatever you’re stuck on, and we’ll turn it into a plan.</p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1">https://calendly.com/maahika/mentoring?back=1</a></p><p><br></p><p>Founders + brands: Work with me on storytelling, personal branding, content and strategy through Empower Sounds Media.</p><p><br></p><p>Book a Strategy Session : <a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07">https://calendly.com/maahika/branding-strategy-session?back=1&month=2026-07</a></p><p><br></p><p>Book a discovery call : <a href="https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1">https://calendly.com/maahika/discovery-call?back=1</a></p><p><br></p><p>Join the next personal branding sprint : <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeNPFNgdt02CyvYsb6n9i8kmvEJRxQDmTwOVusTxII_tMoJ7Q/viewform?usp=hea