The Hidden Roles Keeping You Stuck in the Same Fight

Send us Fan Mail It's 9:15 on a Tuesday night. The kids are finally asleep, and one of you is reloading the dishwasher because the other one did it wrong. Bowls on the top rack again. Four minutes later you're both saying things like "Why am I the only adult in this house?" and "Nothing I do is ever good enough for you," and you end the night on opposite edges of the mattress like strangers sharing a train compartment. That fight was never about the dishwasher. In this episode, I'm walking yo...